Have you ever been at a lack of words when you are talking to a friend going through a divorce? It can be tough to know what to say, especially if you have never gone through one yourself. It never is easy to come up with the right words, but the Provo Divorce Lawyers have come up with a list of things you can say to help them and ease the tension.
Can I be your plus 1?
In a marriage, you most always have a built-in plus 1 to every outing and event. It can be a tough change after divorce to no longer have that support center. It will mean the world to your friend to let them know they are not alone.
Sometimes when a person is going through a tough time, having people around them be constantly positive can get on their nerves. Sometimes people in this situation just wants to know that you understand how much the situation sucks. Be real with your friend, they will appreciate it.
I’ve got your back
Probably one of the most important things you can do is to let your friend know that you have their back. Make sure you let them know, through your words and actions, that you are on their side, no matter what.
How can I help you?
Going through a divorce can be overwhelming. With one less pair of hands around the house, there are so many things to do that important things will slip through the cracks. Helping your friend with errands, cooking, babysitting, etc. will mean more to them than you know.